I’ve heard it before… It’s the 21st century! Gender roles don’t exist anymore! Women can play the role of men! Bla, bla, bla.
But don’t forget that while our mothers and our grandmothers didn’t have the opportunities we have today, they did have something going for them – They well understood their role! And no, not in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant. I mean, humble, meek, strong, not pushy, passive, yet passionate.
Hence, when any Nigerian woman sees an attractive man, she should hold back from approaching him. She is the crown jewel. The man should come and seek his prize! But just incase this is not good enough reason for you, here are 5 more!
1. What if he’s CRAZY? DERANGED??
Let’s say you see this hottie across the way. He’s got the entire package: heightened stature, darkened complexion, toned physique. Whew! You decide to quit with the BS! ‘I’m a good catch too!’ you think to yourself. He needs a woman like me in his life. So you step to him. He is humbled when you speak first.
He laughs it off and seems almost embarrassed by your action. When you ask him for the digits, he rattles them off. You walk away because that’s the only thing left to do. You call, he answers. You go out, he’s cool. Then, one day, you find out he has baby momma drama, a repossessed car, a foreclosed home, plus, he’s just plain CRAZY!
Now, look back. Don’t you wish you hadn’t said a mumbling word?
2. Let a man be a man!
I know that’s difficult sometimes. Because, for one, men don’t always know how to be men (can I get an AMEN!). But that’s okay. You need to let them learn. Don’t be their mother. Don’t attempt to teach them.
And check this: if he’s the right kind of man. I’m talking about the man you need, then guess what? He’s already got his mind’s gears grinding up a way to snag you girl! He’s just patiently seeking the right opportunity.
3. It definitely makes YOU look desperate.
Sorry. But in my years of existence I have never seen a woman approach a man and not seem like one of these 3 things:
Do You Agree Or Dis-Agree?